Friday, September 4, 2009

What is wrong with YOU

It's not a matter of whether he's talking to anyone. It's a matter of what is more important to him. He doesn't even behave like he hears me when he's just sitting right next to me, because he is playing games.

He got upset and asked me: "What's the matter with YOU?" when I stopped speaking midway. I stopped speaking because I felt like I was talking to myself!!! I felt like a crazy woman talking to myself. I have already been talking to myself the whole day long, everyday!!!!

How humorous!

It's tiring having to repeat a million times when talking to AN before she finally 'hears' what I say. And I have to do the same with Adrielle's father.

He said he heard me and could repeat the few words I spoke. What use is that? I don't need a parrot.

What do I need? I think interaction will be nice? Communication will be nice too? Probably I can consider investing in a voice recorder and know for sure it also can repeat what I just told it. I can also record a relevant response so I have some 2 way communication going on.

I'm so tired.


The wonders of PMS and what it can do to chase away whatever remaining ability to reason.

6 comments:

Cocoa the Beagle said...

hey BM's mummy,

pls dun be sad. we know exactly how you feel. you know wat? our mum previously have alot of communication issues with our dad too. That's until she found out that actually MEN and WOMEN are really different in certain ways. She read a book called something like 'Man from Mars, Women from Venus' and she now understands why sometimes men turn 'deaf' when listening to women. There's really a logic behind it. Maybe you can try reading it, it's a really fun book to read!

Cheer up k? Woof woof!

Licks & Cuddles,
Cocoa and Barley

Cocoa the Beagle said...

Oh the book's name is "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus".

It's like this:
http://bookweb.kinokuniya.co.jp/guest/cgi-bin/bookseaohb.cgi?ISBN=0060574216&AREA=04&LANG=E

Licks & Cuddles,
Cocoa and Barley

Boredlittleflower said...

You guys are so sweet to drop by with words of encouragement :) hugs!

I've read the book once but when things happen and with the monthly deal that we, Venusians have to go through, I got really overwhelmed. Sigh.. But am feeling much better now :)

It's not easy for 2 people to live together.guess we'll just hv to keep making adjustments right up to the end of our lives. Hehe.

Thanks for feeling with me. Having people who can relate does keep me sane and going back the right way.

Cocoa the Beagle said...

Oh yeah, mum says during that time of the month it is really maddening! She say it's like she feels she wanna pick a fight/quarrel just to feel 'better'!

You won't believe it, but what she does is she will tell our dad that it's the time of the month, and she wanna 'find something to quarrel FOR FUN'! So dad understands and they will start something to 'quarrel' deliberately BUT w/o hurting each other. Act it's something like find a topic to start a 'fierce' debate etc. Then she feels gd for the rest of the day(s). Weird eh? LOL!

Another way mum does is to get a new pair of shoes/bag/cloths/makeup or just something new during that time of the month. Mum says it works EVERY TIME for her! What an excuse to shop huh!!!

Anyway glad you are feeling better now :) Jia you! Hugz!

Licks & Cuddles,
Cocoa and Barley

Cocoa the Beagle said...

And yah, mum's loot for this month was some fake eyelashes and dunno wat eye glitter from Sasa. *roll eyes*

Licks & Cuddles,
Cocoa and Barley

Boredlittleflower said...

Oh my goodness! Ur mummy's collects makeup too??