Super Annoying

REALLY. ... AN seems to be on my nerves over almost everything.

She wants things and doesn't take "no" or "wait" as answers. She takes eternity to finish a tiny portion of food, as usual. What's new? That she's also learnt to not ask for things properly. It's increasingly common that she's stomping to get things her way.

Best thing is, when Mr Liow and i are ignoring her bad behavior, one 'kind' soul steps in to nicely assure her: "don't cry ok? Its ok. I love you.see? You make daddy and mummy angry." And repeats the "I love you, don't make them angry k? Otherwise they won't love you."

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Bad behaviour is NOT ok! And being angry does not make us love her less. And quit stepping in when she's vulnerable. She needs to know she's being punished, not unloved!! What we need is a common stand. What she's getting is misconception that bad behaviour makes the whole world angry but grandma still loves her.

Why don't she take that 'kindness' and show it to the nieces? Coz she can't! Its easier to be nice when you are not in charge of discipline!

If you can't help, then step back. Don't make things worse...

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